You can change the direction this train is moving just by thinking about it.

Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder. Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a priority.” “I don’t go to the doctor because my health is not a priority.” If these phrases don’t sit well, that’s the point. Changing our language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don’t like how we’re spending an hour, we can choose differently.

what if tattoos just randomly appeared on our skin at key points in our lives and we had to figure out what they meant for ourselves


a couple days ago my brother was driving and he saw a traffic camera flash at him but he was going the speed limit so he drove by it 5 more times thinking it was funny because he was doing nothing wrong and today he got 6 tickets in the mail for driving without a seat belt 

Anonymous asked:
maybe in 2014 ill finally be good enough for someone..

maybe in 2014 you’ll realize you always were… 



"It scares me to death to think that one day I might look back into my life and realize that I lived it painfully ordinary."

I either eat too much or starve myself. Sleep for 14 hours or have insomniac nights. Fall in love very hard or hate passionately. I don’t know what grey is. I never did.
(via darioj)